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    MJ & Hungryman » Nutrition

    Stop Labeling Fat as "Good" or "Bad"

    By Min On March 16, 2015, Updated November 29, 2019

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    Guide to achieving a healthy balance

    Last week, we talked about the basics of hormones and how to deal with stress in a positive way. Now we turn our focus to diet and nutrition. Today, it's all about FATS. That's right! The four letter word that evokes all kinds of fear and anxiety in so many people. With all the misconceptions and confusion surrounding it, it's time to see and embrace it for what it is - an ESSENTIAL nutrient!

    What purpose does fat serve? 

    As a macronutrient, meaning our body needs a lot of it, fat is essential for every cell in our body. Fat not only provides and stores energy, it also insulates and protects the body, aids in the absorption and transport of fat-soluble vitamins (vitamins A, D, E, K) and minerals, assists in the conversion of carotene to vitamin A, helps with inflammation...just to name a few.

    Of course, fat adds flavor and texture, too. And because it is more energy-dense than the other major macronutrients, carbohydrates and proteins (9 calories/gram vs. 4 calories/gram), it also helps us feel full and satisfied. I suggest you do an experiment to test this. Compare your satiety level after consuming plain toast vs. toast with avocado. I bet you the latter will have more staying power and keep you fuller for a longer period. All this to say,

     a healthy diet = a combination of carbohydrates, protein, AND fat!

    How much fat should you consume?

    The current recommendations are:

    • Total calories from fat: 25-35%
    • Saturated fat: < 7% of calories
    • Trans fat: <1% of calories

    However, remember that these are just guidelines. Eating a well-balanced diet is soo much more important than stressing over each gram of fat.

    If there’s anything that you take away from this post, I hope it's this:

     Stop fearing fats!

    Stop labeling fat as good or bad

    If you or someone you know is a chronic dieter, most likely following one of those ever-so-popular low-fat or fat-free diets, chances are yours or their hormones are imbalanced. The reason being, fats are the building blocks of hormones.

    Our bodies need a wide variety of fats to work properly. Again, it’s all about consuming a "well-balanced” diet rather than pursuing a "perfect" diet, if that even exists. I'm completely against labeling certain foods as "good" or "bad."

    Here's a good example of why:

    I personally believe all the controversy over fats began with labeling them - saturated fats = "bad", polyunsaturated fats = "good." Because what did this do? The majority of the saturated fats in our diet has been replaced with polyunsaturated fats, primarily in the form of vegetable oils derived from soy, corn, canola, and safflower. 

    So what's the problem with this?

    Well, let's first talk about saturated fats...

    • Mostly solid at room temperature
    • Major sources:
      • Red meat
      • Whole fat dairy products (milk, cream, butter, cheese, ice cream)
      • Palm and coconut oil
      • Commercially prepared baked goods

    As I'm sure you've heard, yes, they may clog your arteries, increase the risk of cardiovascular disease (although the studies show a lack of evidence to conclude such correlation), etc. However, so can replacing saturated fats with refined carbohydrates or processed vegetable oil, which is what's been happening. You see, this is where the problem lies. In an effort to eliminate saturated fats, highly processed low-fat products (filled with sugar and preservatives) and vegetable oils began to be produced and consumed in enormous quantities. Unfortunately, such a shift may actually be more detrimental to our health than the saturated fat itself.

    You have to remember that saturated fats also play an important role in our bodies. For instance, they make up at least 50% of cell membranes, help keep our bones strong, enhance the immune system, and possess antimicrobial properties.

    The suggestion says limit, not eliminate!

    Now let's talk about the so-called "good" fats -

    Monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats... 

    • Liquid at room temperature
    • Major sources:
      • Vegetable oils - canola, soybean, olive, etc.
      • Avocado
      • Nuts
      • Fish
      • Flax seeds, Chia seeds

    Omega-3 and omega-6 (PUFAs) are essential fatty acids, meaning our bodies cannot make them and thus must be obtained from our diet. They both have distinct biological functions and offer unique health benefits and are essential for normal growth and development.

    They are considered "good" because they have been shown to reduce blood cholesterol levels and lower the risk of heart disease.

    BUT, the problem is that we are consuming way too much omega-6 fats in the form of highly processed vegetable oils stripped of their original nutrients in respect to omega-3. As mentioned earlier, the low-fat craze and the replacement of animal fat with vegetable fat may be partially to blame. The recommended ratio of omega-6 to omega-3 is 2:1-4:1 (to put this into perspective, the modern Western dietary ratio is nearly 20:1).

    The issue with omega-6 is that it contributes to inflammation in the body, which is a contributing factor for many chronic diseases, including cardiovascular disease. Additionally, PUFAs are highly unstable and prone to oxidation in the presence of heat, oxygen, and moisture. Rancid oils produce free radicals, which are extremely reactive chemically and can wreak havoc on your body. For instance, they can damage your tissues, organs, blood vessels, etc.

    One of the ways you can prevent oil rancidity is to be aware of its smoke point. My fellow dietitian, Anne from Fannetastic Food wrote a comprehensive post on which oils to use for cooking, baking, roasting, etc., so be sure to check it out!

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    All this to say:  

    • Stop labeling fats as "good" or "bad"
    • If you use vegetable oil in salads, throw in some salmon or flaxseeds to balance those omega-3s and omega-6s.
    • Go ahead and have that butter on your toast instead of highly processed margarine. Eat REAL foods.
    • If you are cutting back on red meat or dairy products in an effort to limit (not eliminate) the intake of saturated fats, then replace them with other real, high-quality fats found in other foods. For instance, choose fatty fish, nuts and seeds, and avocados, instead of highly processed, low-fat products, refined carbohydrates, or commercial vegetable oils.
    • There is a fat you DO want to avoid - trans-fats. They are made through a process call hydrogenation, in which a liquid oil is converted to one that is solid at room temperature to make it more stable (e.g. margarine). So avoid products that contain "hydrogenated" or "partially hydrogenated" in the ingredient list. But you won't have to worry bc you'll be nourishing your body with REAL foods, right? 😉

    eat more fat

    Now, I intentionally choose to eat and enjoy full-fat cheese, avocado toast with a fried egg on top, bananas with generous amounts of nut butter, full-fat ice cream... I always feel satisfied afterward, and guess what? I haven’t gained weight, and my cycle is still very regular. So stop fearing and stressing over fats, because not only is it pointless, but you can kiss hormonal balance goodbye with all that stress.

    So when it comes down to it, it’s all about eating (one more time for good measure) a well-balanced diet. Instead of labeling fats as "good" or "bad" focus on eating unprocessed, whole foods fat and all. But remember, even foods that are super good for you can be harmful if consumed in excess.

     

     

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    About Min

    Thank you so much for stopping by! I am Min, a Registered Dietitian, a Christ follower, a wife, and a mom to our two miracle babies! Currently, I’m having a ton of fun feeding their tummies and sharing our baby led weaning journey! Follow me on Instagram if interested in seeing daily menu as well as tips and tricks.

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    1. Niki says

      May 31, 2015 at 10:25 am

      Your blog is amazing! Thank you so much for taking time to share information that helps me on the way to a healthier life!

    2. Juliana @ 4 Well Rules says

      March 23, 2015 at 6:40 pm

      this is an amazing post-thanks so much for sharing!!

    3. Danielle says

      March 23, 2015 at 7:33 am

      Hi! I recently started a series on my blog called Nutrition School, and in the first post I wrote about the macronutrients and why we need them and in what quantities, and I covered a lot of the same stuff you did here. I too, used to limit my fat intake and always choose low fat or fat free products, and now I am ALL ABOUT fat, lol. I eat a whole avocado pretty much every day, eat organic peanut butter right from the jar, and even enjoy crispy chicken skin that I've fried in coconut oil. Love that more and more RD's are getting the word out there that we all need to stop fearing fat. Keep up the great posts!

    4. Kari @ bite-sized thoughts says

      March 19, 2015 at 12:28 pm

      I love this Min! It is so sad that many people have forgotten how essential fat is.

    5. Michelle James says

      March 18, 2015 at 1:04 pm

      THANK YOU for this! I don't even tell people why I eat what I do anymore. Everyone around here is low fat, high carb, tons of exercise. I don't do that and I won't do it anymore. I feel 100% better when I eat real food which includes fat. Anyway I appreciate your post!

      • Min says

        March 19, 2015 at 8:51 pm

        Aww you are so welcome, Michelle! Being around that kind of environment must be quite difficult at times, no? But I'm so encouraged by your strength and determination to stick to what you believe and not be influenced by those around you!! Yes to REAL food 😉

    6. Sarah @ SnixyKitchen says

      March 18, 2015 at 1:45 am

      Happy belated anniversary you two!! This is such a great post! I was just chatting with a dietary nutritionist today and she was talking about how her sister's DOCTOR recommended she eat more "tub margarine" - oy. She was talking about how the nutrition guidelines take forever to get into the hands of the doctors, so I appreciate you spreading the word to people! Also - I will have extra butter on my toast;)

      • Min says

        March 19, 2015 at 8:48 pm

        Thanks, friend! I seriously wanna go back to that B&B so I can relive the time when I had no care in the world ;). Tub margarine huh? Wow...this post was really fun for me to write, and I hope to share more evidence-based nutrition topics/info in this lil' space of mine 😉

    7. Tania says

      March 17, 2015 at 12:20 pm

      i was referred to a dietician a couple of years ago to cover bases with a health issue and she actually asked me why I was eating real butter and to switch to margarine because it was better for you.
      I did switch for a while but my instinct was telling me that the real butter in the end is better for my family (since we only used it on the occasional toast etc.) than the fake margarine.

      It was really wonderful to see you break down everything and explain it all. It was also wonderful to see you back up my gut feeling.

      • Min says

        March 17, 2015 at 8:28 pm

        Hi Tania! I'm so glad you followed your instinct in this case!! Absolutely, real butter all the way! I'm happy I could clarify some things for you 😉

    8. Alexis@FItnancials says

      March 17, 2015 at 11:44 am

      I hate that fats, carbs, and pretty much anything have or had a 'bad' label on them. I know of so many people who try to stay away from fats/carbs and they think they are doing good for their body, when it's having the opposite effect.

    9. lindsay says

      March 16, 2015 at 5:21 pm

      yes yes! love our fats! we can't thrive without them, true energy!

    10. Katie @ Mom to Mom Nutrition says

      March 16, 2015 at 2:07 pm

      Min--- such a great post! Having worked on behalf of the Beef Checkoff program for the past 4 years I've had my fair share of conversations about saturated fat and beef. I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. And every dietetic intern should read this post! Oh and practicing RD's too 🙂

      • Min says

        March 17, 2015 at 8:22 pm

        Aww thanks, Katie! This is def a post I've been meaning to write for a long time and a topic that is very dear to my heart.

    11. Rebecca @ Strength and Sunshine says

      March 16, 2015 at 1:32 pm

      Yes! Fats have only made me healthier and feeling much better then I ever have!

    12. Alanna says

      March 16, 2015 at 12:18 pm

      I can not tell you how often I emphasize the importance of eating fat! I have been down the "avoid fat" path a few years ago, only eating non-fat/low fat products, avoiding oils, etc. because of the fear, only leading to amenorrhea (a couple of times) myself and knowing the exact cause of it all. Thank you for linking back to your beautiful post from the past - I have struggled with very similar issues. I am now eating more fat than ever and loving every minute of it (in moderation, of course) 😉

      • Min says

        March 17, 2015 at 8:20 pm

        Thank you so much, Alanna, for sharing your personal struggles with me as well. So glad to see both of us on the other side 😉

    13. Jessica @ Nutritioulicious says

      March 16, 2015 at 11:41 am

      Great post Min. Well laid out and easy to comprehend nutrition info on a highly contested topic. Well done!

    14. Crystal says

      March 16, 2015 at 10:32 am

      I have pretty much decided that anything is good to eat in moderation and the less processed, the better. All the things they do to food to try to make it healthier just makes people think they can eat more of it, i think.

      • Min says

        March 17, 2015 at 8:19 pm

        And the so-called "healthier" products leave you feeling so unsatisfied!

    15. Nutrition a la Natalie says

      March 16, 2015 at 7:57 am

      It's interesting because I just wrote an article on the new proposed Nutrition Facts label. The FDA feels like the same way as you so they are taking "Calories from Fat" off the new labels. It's a small victory!

    16. Elizabeth @ Enjoy Every Bite says

      March 16, 2015 at 7:07 am

      Love this so much. I love that fat is is being redeemed. I've started buying full fat sour cream, cottage cheese, etc... as well. I think that if everyone eats real foods in moderation that we'd be much better off!

    17. francesca says

      March 16, 2015 at 6:46 am

      The struggle is real. Thanks for the informative info 😀

    18. rachel @ Athletic Avocado says

      March 16, 2015 at 6:35 am

      I agree with this 100%! Fats are essential for healthy living! They need not to be feared!! especially avocado and peanut butter! 🙂 Great post!

    19. Julie @ RDelicious Kitchen says

      March 16, 2015 at 6:26 am

      wonderfully written post! I'm definitely pinning this for future reference!

    20. Dixya @ Food, Pleasure, and Health says

      March 16, 2015 at 6:21 am

      amen! there is so much misconception about fat free and low fat stuff but at the end of the day, they are all chemical junk. It is little difficult to practice in a hospital setting because we are kind of required to only allow low fat products to our patients which makes sense but at the same time, it does not. i used to preach all things fat free and sugar free as well but in reality those things taste really nasty - #whatwasithinking

      • Min says

        March 17, 2015 at 8:18 pm

        I remember having to do that during my internship. And agreed! They are so so unappetizing..

    21. Trisha says

      March 16, 2015 at 5:41 am

      Min, I found this post super informative and helpful! It's good to know that so many yummy foods (avocado, peanut butter, cheese, ice cream) are actually vital to have in our diet. (in moderation) Also, I love the shots of your regular breakfasts and lunches--it's good to have some everyday inspiration!

      • Min says

        March 17, 2015 at 8:14 pm

        I'm glad you found this helpful, Trisha! And absolutely! All those foods you've listed are not the villains ;).

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