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    MJ & Hungryman » Uncategorized

    Building Your Virtual Community

    By Min On September 16, 2014, Updated January 26, 2022

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    Blog Brûlée

    Time sure flies when you’re having fun, and this past weekend was no exception. “I’m attending Blog Brûlée!” I had been exclaiming for the past couple of months, and now that it’s over, I find myself hesitantly crossing the event off of my calendar. I ate some pretty amazing food, stayed at the exquisite Smugglers' Notch resort where I was treated like royalty, enjoyed gorgeous views and crisp weather... you get the picture. (Disclosure: my attendance was partially paid for by the sponsors of Blog Brûlée). 

    I shall share the details and the scenic pictures soon, but until then, get ready to see a lot of smiling faces ;).

    Blog BrûléeThe co-founders (from left to right): Gretchen, Deanna, Robin, Regan

    To be quite honest, I was overcome with intimidation and nervousness up until the very moment I met everyone (to those I shook hands with..I apologize for my clammy hands), but all the uneasy feelings swiftly changed to relaxation and cheerfulness. “Maybe I belong here” changed to “I Do belong here” by the end of the weekend.

    Yes, we were there to have fun and be “wild” (hitting the hay by 10 pm), but more importantly, we were there to learn from the speakers and from each other on how to become better bloggers and become a force to be reckoned with in the blogosphere and beyond. To do so, we'll need each other to lean on, support, motivate, and even help grow thick skin with brutal honesty that comes from a place of genuine love.

    Blog Brûlée(Anne // Liz, Meme  - my roomies)

    EA Stewart, the Spicy RD, spoke to us about “building your virtual community.” I loved how she premised her talk around sharing the timeline of how her blog started and has evolved over the years.

    The pieces of advice that really resonated with me were:

    • Work hard. Just like with everything else in life, success doesn’t happen overnight. All those “big fish” or hugely successful bloggers, that I constantly compare myself to, were also small at one point. I loved EA’s imagery that big or small, we are all swimming in the same pond. So I’m going to start by ditching my self-debilitating thoughts and begin practicing gratitude like Kara. I’m going to work on building up my confidence and keep on truckin’.
    • Set realistic goals. I tell myself that my faith and family come before anything else. However, between school, cooking, blogging, etc., I’ve realized that the two most important things in my life have taken a backseat. No wonder I’ve been feeling so bogged down lately. I learned that it’s ok if I can’t post 3+ times a week or if I’m not on top of social media at all times. I must find what works for me and, once again, stop comparing myself to others.
    • Toot your own horn. Boy...this is a rough one for me. But going back to the whole building my confidence thing, I’m going to make a conscious effort to create and share, as EA put it, my “star studded” profile and work. I’m def going to need some accountability!

    Blog Brûlée

    (Rachel, Meme)

    • Express and be yourself! I can’t tell you how many times I've thought to myself, “Gosh, why can’t I write like her? My style of writing is so boring..." and on and on. As you can see, I'd have so many more hours in my day if comparison was not part of the equation. “But I love your voice,” I vividly remember Marisa telling me as I shared with her my struggles. Come again? Really? This is just one of many examples of the overflow of encouragement and strength I gained from this weekend. I'm going to work on following my instinct, embracing what I consider an approachable, friendly voice.
    • Share the love. 80/20 rule – 80% of the time, share other people’s content and 20% share mine. I’ll be quick to admit that I’ve been incredibly bad about this, but no more! I want to follow the footsteps of EA, who to me is like a social media fairy godmother. She waves her magic wand every time I post something so that its reach may be multiplied.

    Blog Brûlée(Marisa, Diane, Kylie)

    Blog Brûlée

     (left to right: Kara, Mckenzie, Danielle, Kristina)

    Blog Brûlée

    (ladies not mentioned above: left to right - Jenna, Julie, Holly, Ashley, Jen, Ann)

    I’m truly thankful for this amazingly passionate and supportive community that I’m a part of, and I hope that we’ll be swimming in the same pond until we’re too big and fat to move..even then, I hope we stay together ;). 

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    About Min

    Thank you so much for stopping by! I am Min, a Registered Dietitian, a Christ follower, a wife, and a mom to our two miracle babies! Currently, I’m having a ton of fun feeding their tummies and sharing our baby led weaning journey! Follow me on Instagram if interested in seeing daily menu as well as tips and tricks.

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    1. Ann Dunaway Teh (@anndunawayteh) says

      October 13, 2014 at 11:26 am

      Loved reading this! Brings back all of the memories. Even though we didn't get a chance to speak as much as I would have liked, I hope that I'll be seeing you in the future at other events and of course, keeping up online!

      Reply
      • Min says

        October 15, 2014 at 8:32 pm

        Aww I truly enjoyed our time together, and I, too, look forward to meeting you again in the near future! Hope you're doing well!

        Reply
    2. diane says

      September 19, 2014 at 10:36 am

      Min, Love, love, love this post. From reading your blog posts, I know you are a dietitian that truely has a passion for what you do! When I met you at the blog brulee you confirmed my 'first impression thoughts of you from social media interaction': Gentle & Kind. Don't lose that.

      Reply
    3. EA-The Spicy RD says

      September 19, 2014 at 10:20 am

      LOVE this post Min, and I am honored to add a new title to my resume, "Social Media Fairy Godmother" 🙂 It was truly wonderful to finally meet you in person, and your sparkling personality, and "down-to-earthness" comes across beautifully in your blog posts! I hope we can meet again soon!

      Reply
    4. Meme says

      September 18, 2014 at 10:15 pm

      I've written and rewritten this comment about 5 times... I am SO incredibly happy that we were able to connect this weekend. Blog Brûlée was beyond amazing, and you were the perfect travel companion/shuttle buddy/roommate - plus Liz, of course 🙂
      You are a beauty both inside and out, and I look forward to growing our careers {in whatever direction that may be haha} together. You are the best
      xxoo

      Reply
    5. ellie | fit for the soul says

      September 18, 2014 at 7:33 pm

      Unnie, I loved this post and thank you for sharing such huge tips and realizations. I can't emphasize enough how hard it is to find a voice in writing....it's like, literally re-living high school, but much more fun of course. 😀 I have to tell you that I've always loved your approachable and relate-able voice! It's not over the top in which I get lost in the frills of crazy adjectives, and it's definitely advanced at the same time. All that to say, it's fun to read, simple to follow, and very sweet. <3

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    6. felicia | Dish by Dish says

      September 17, 2014 at 4:07 pm

      Min! This is wonderful! I wished I lived in the States too where there are so many blogger events to attend and meet like-minded people who you can grow together with! Glad you had fun! And thnaks for sharing your experience with us. 🙂 Sending love!

      p.s you have a great writing voice and I love it! don't compare yourself with others because its what makes you special - I'm trying not to compare to, so I understand what you mean!

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      • Min says

        September 18, 2014 at 7:08 pm

        Are there not many bloggers where you are? You should totally organize something hehe. And thank you for your continuous love and support, Felicia! It truly means a lot.

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    7. Meal Makeover Mom Janice says

      September 17, 2014 at 9:25 am

      Min, I knew when I met you at FNCE last year that you were a rockstar and that we would meet again. And what a fabulous weekend to share. Already looking forward to our next rendezvous!

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 18, 2014 at 7:06 pm

        You're too kind, Janice! I don't think you should be throwing around a word like "rockstar" just anywhere. For you, however, totally appropriate ;). Yes, I can't wait to see you again! Hopefully sooner than later

        Reply
    8. Alanna says

      September 17, 2014 at 8:45 am

      Min, you are a great writer and overall blogger!! You are inspiring in so many ways. I think I compare myself to others way too often and I know that needs to stop. I am learning so much in the process and know that hard work pays off. The strong sense of community and support from this blogging world keeps me going! Blog Brulee looks like a fabulous event with some great people 🙂

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      • Min says

        September 18, 2014 at 7:04 pm

        Wow! Thank you so much, Alanna for your words of encouragement! And yes, having a solid community is so important. I'm so thankful that we connected! Let's def keep each other accountable ;).

        Reply
    9. Liz - Meal Makeover Mom says

      September 17, 2014 at 8:05 am

      I'm so glad I met you at Blog Brûlée; you were an awesome roommate. BUT … I don't believe you went to bed at 10pm. Hmmmm! I too feel motivated and inspired after being at the event, and I look forward to sharing everyone's posts and accomplishments in the days ahead 🙂

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 18, 2014 at 7:01 pm

        Haha I meant every night we parted ways at 10..but I may have stayed up a lil' extra talking to Meme ;). And I was so bummed out that I didn't get to do face mask with you, which I specifically brought to share with my roomies :(. Next time! You are truly an inspiration to me..now let the stalking begin!

        Reply
    10. Kristina @ love & zest says

      September 17, 2014 at 5:49 am

      enjoyed spending time with you Min!!

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      • Min says

        September 18, 2014 at 6:53 pm

        Me too! Too short though...

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    11. Sarah @ SnixyKitchen says

      September 17, 2014 at 3:02 am

      Wow! What a great trip, Min! I'm so glad you had such an inspirational time - I love all of these pieces of advice. Thanks for sharing them:) I'm looking forward to being part of your virtual community! xo.

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 18, 2014 at 6:44 pm

        Aww Sarah! I'm so thankful that our blogs brought us together, and I look forward to getting to know you more, my sweet dear friend. P.S we def need to do another video call soon! So fun 😉

        Reply
    12. Min says

      September 16, 2014 at 10:52 pm

      Thank you so much, Jenna! Our time together was wayy too short, but I'm thankful that we can stay connected through our blogs ;). Hope we can see each other in person in the near future as well. P.S the color yellow was made for you!

      Reply
    13. Rachael@AnAvocadoADay says

      September 16, 2014 at 7:43 pm

      LOVED reading this! I feel so blessed to have met and connected with you at Blog Brulee, even though I was pretty positive before that we were BFFs from reading your blog! You are fabulous and talented and a beautiful person, inside and out!

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 10:47 pm

        Haha thanks, Rachael! The feelings are mutual ;). I'm also thankful for the extra time we got to spend together before parting ways…the cab driver just popped into my mind haha. Can't wait to talk to you soon!! Time to set my goals so we can share.

        Reply
    14. Deanna Segrave-Daly (@tspbasil) says

      September 16, 2014 at 6:45 pm

      Oh Min, we were thrilled to have you at Blog Brulee and from the second you were invited, we had no doubt that you BELONGED with all of these talented bloggers. We are always our own worst critics, I guess, and like Marisa said, I love your voice and and always enjoy reading your posts. And I always use YOU as an example on being a stellar commenter on other people's posts as you always leave thoughtful and thorough comments. I love seeing how much you've grown with your blog in such a short time - you will go far, I have no doubt - be true to yourself always (geez, now I'm going to tear up 🙂

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 10:41 pm

        Ok you got me all teary…Thank you so much, Deanna, for believing in me and for supporting me through my journey. I tell people that the best thing I did was join the Recipe Redux, which led me to all you remarkable ladies. I appreciate you so much and am so thankful to have you in my life!

        Reply
    15. Ashley | Spoonful of Flavor says

      September 16, 2014 at 5:40 pm

      I was following all of you along on Instagram and it looks like you had a wonderful time in Vermont! I used to visit Smuggler's Notch often in the winter to ski and it is a great place.

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      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 10:29 pm

        Thanks, Ashley! And I, too, have been following you on Instagram ;). Glad you're having a wonderful time. I've actually never been skiing so I just may have to go back with Tim in the near future.

        Reply
    16. gretchen | kumquat says

      September 16, 2014 at 5:26 pm

      you SO belong! i'm so glad you had such a great time... we knew we we'd picked an exceptional group out of this community, and you all only proved us right. so glad to see the relationships you've developed to take with you along this fun blogging journey!

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      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 10:28 pm

        Aww Gretchen. Your gentle and sweet spirit truly warms my heart. Thank you so much for bringing all of us tother! It truly was an unforgettable experience, and we all can't thank you guys enough for making it happen. I don't feel so lonely anymore 😉

        Reply
    17. Kara Lydon, RD says

      September 16, 2014 at 10:38 am

      Min! I feel so grateful to have met you! I only wish we could've had more time together this past weekend. You are such an inspiration to me and I look forward to staying connected. Thank you for sharing my post - it's not always easy to re-shift the mindset toward gratitude so I hope we can all continue to remind each other that we each have something unique and important to share and lots to be grateful for! xo

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 10:24 pm

        Same here! I truly enjoyed our conversations and look forward to getting to know you on a deeper level. You've accomplished soo much already, and I can't wait to see how much you grow as a person and as a successful professional ;). And yes, let's definitely keep each other accountable because it's oh so easy to fall back to negativity and self-doubt.

        Reply
    18. Amy | Club Narwhal says

      September 16, 2014 at 10:13 am

      Oh, this sounds like such a fun (and enriching) experience! I love your tips and they could not have come at a better time. I've been feeling overwhelmed lately about life in general and you are so right--it's okay (and way saner) to set realistic goal. Thanks so much for sharing! Someday I'd love to attend an event with lots of like minded souls 🙂

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      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 10:07 pm

        I'm glad this post resonated with you, Amy. Life sure can get rough, but a positive mentality can get us through anything. And I hope you'll get to attend one soon as it is so good for the soul ;).

        Reply
    19. Julie @ Lovely Little Kitchen says

      September 16, 2014 at 7:28 am

      How neat that you could go! I love all the things you took away from your time there. Thanks for sharing them here!

      Reply
      • Min says

        September 16, 2014 at 9:46 pm

        It truly was an unforgettable experience! I learned so much and have come back refreshed ;).

        Reply

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